Church Mouse Update 15th November 2020
Webmaster • November 14, 2020
The musings of one of God’s smallest creatures on events in and around the Parish over the past seven days . . . .
A very busy time around the Presbytery this week . . .
There have, very sadly, been quite a few deaths of parishioners and ex- parishioners over the past couple of weeks, as well as Mgr Barry. I think that Fr D has four services that he is trying to arrange at present and, of course, we are presently not allowed to celebrate requiems in the church; this means that all our funeral services are either at the crematorium or at the graveside which is not what would normally happen. All of us will be much, much happier once we can once again conduct our funeral services as would normally be the case in the Catholic Church (i.e. a requiem Mass).
On Tuesday Fr D was delighted to receive from the local borough council a Lotteries License for the Parish which means that we are now legally registered to hold properly organised draws where there is a sale of tickets before the day of the draw. Sadly, this is too late to have a Christmas Draw (tickets cannot be sold because the church is not open for weekend Masses) but there is half an idea of a ‘Spring Draw’ once we are able to celebrate our usual weekend Masses once more (at least we will know that they are legal!).
On Wednesday Fr D was off to Brighton after the morning Mass (livestreamed) and had to spend considerable time, once he got to his desk, on a very complicated marriage story which was not quite like any other that he has dealt with in over twenty years! Eventually, he was able to plot a way forward with this new case whilst at the same time hoping that no further ‘complications’ would transpire along the way. In the evening Fr D met with the parents of those children who have enrolled in the past few weeks on the First Reconciliation/Eucharist Programme for the current academic year. From this year the Parish is moving to a different way of delivering the programme which involves the candidate’s parents being responsible for delivering the sessions (after going through each section with Fr D) to the children. This is something that the diocese has been recommending for a few years now. Fr D had just held the first session of this new method in his former parish when he got ‘the phone call’ from Bishop Richard asking him to come to Cobham.
On Thursday evening Fr D met with three families who are presently on the Infant Baptism Course to complete the course for their children to be baptised. At
present, because of the lock-down, a date cannot be set - we wait in hope!

St. Alban was the first martyr of England. During a persecution of the Christians, Alban, although a pagan, hid a priest in his home. The priest made such a great impression on him that Alban received instructions and was baptised a Christian himself. In the meantime, the governor had been told that the priest was hiding with Alban, and he sent his soldiers to capture him. But Alban changed clothes with his guest, and gave himself up in his stead. The judge was furious when he found out that the priest had escaped and he said to Alban, “You shall get the punishment he was to get unless you worship the pagan gods.” The Saint answered that he would never worship those false gods again. “To what family do you belong?” demanded the judge. “That does not concern you,” said Alban. “If you want to know my religion, I am a Christian.” Angrily the judge commanded him again to sacrifice to the gods at once. “Your sacrifices are offered to devils,” answered Alban. “They cannot help you or answer your requests. The reward for such sacrifices is the everlasting punishment of Hell.” Since he was getting nowhere, the judge had Alban whipped. Then he commanded that he be beheaded. On the way to the place of execution, the soldier who was to kill Alban was converted himself, and he too, became a martyr.

In 2024 Sacred Heart, Cobham raised a wonderful £4,093.02 through our Red Boxes and donations to Missio, the Holy Father’s own Missionary Society in England and Wales. Your support of Missionary priests enables people to come together to celebrate the Eucharist and to work together to improve the lives of many missionary communities. Thank you!

The musings of one of God’s smallest creatures on events in and around the Parish over the past seven days . . . . Quite a busy time around The Presbytery this week as Fr D had several meetings that were not Parish based . . . . . Last Saturday morning Fr D had the final session before Communion Day with the parents and candidates on the First Eucharist Programme this year. This ‘slice of the cake’ was the penultimate one and covered the actual Communion Rite at Mass (how to receive Holy Communion). This Saturday the participants will practice receiving Holy Communion and ‘walk through’ what will be happening on Sunday when they celebrate their First Eucharist. After the 11.00 Mass on Sunday Fr D celebrated the Baptism of a young parishioner whose parents had been preparing for the sacrament over the past couple of months. On Monday Fr D was quickly off to Worthing where he was meeting with his Ministry to Priest’s Support Group. Being his old parish he was ‘spotted’ by some of his former parishioners and it took a little while to get from the car park into the church for their hour before the Blessed Sacrament! After celebrating Morning Prayer, Mass, and Exposition on Tuesday, Fr D picked up Fr Tony and headed off to Ewell where there was a Deanery Clergy Meeting that had been arranged outside of the normal pattern whilst Fr D was away last month at the Canon Law Conference (Deanery Clergy Meetings usually only take place between October and May!). The ‘cause’ for the meeting was a push by the diocese to move forward with the coming together of all the deanery parishes as one single parish, according to the bishop’s plan. The local clergy were all unanimous that we are not yet ready to move forward with this at this point in time and that things have to be done at our local speed not an external timetable. This decision will be taken back to the bishop at the next Council of Priest’s Meeting. In the evening on Tuesday Fr D met with those younger members of our Parish who recently celebrated their confirmation by Bishop Richard down in Arundel Cathedral. This was the last formal meeting of this year’s preparation course and looked at how the Confirmation Service went and into the future as they start life as fully adult members of the Church. The youngsters will be helping at the First Eucharist celebration this weekend and will receive their Certificates of Confirmation along with our First Communicants on Sunday 29th June (09.00) . . . . . .

In the Christian tradition, we don’t often reflect on passages in scripture that personify a female element of the divine. Today’s reading from the Book of Proverbs does just that. This passage would have been well known to Jesus and his fellow Jews, as well as to the New Testament writers. Those authors sometimes drew direct and other times subtle connections be tween the central figure in the Proverbs reading, Lady Wisdom, with Jesus and the Holy Spirit. The voice in the passage is Wisdom, often referred to as Lady Wisdom by scripture scholars. In the Old Testament, this Wisdom figure is always personified as a woman, just as references to God’s spirit (which God breathed into the first humans) are feminine. Lady Wisdom seems to originate within God, not as a creation of God. “The Lord possessed me … I was poured forth … I was brought forth.” Such a description is similar to the phrase in our creed that describes Jesus as “begotten not made, consubstantial with the Father.” Lady Wisdom appears to be a co-worker with God in creation, a master craftsman (craftswoman!) reflecting herself in all of creation. So who exactly is Lady Wisdom? Is she equivalent to Jesus? John suggests this parallel in the first verses of his Gospel. At times Paul equates the two as well. “Christ is the power of God and the wisdom of God” (1 Cor 1:24). Or is Lady Wisdom the Holy Spirit because references to God’s spirit in the Hebrew Bible are feminine? There is no right or wrong answer. The concept of the Trinity is a mystery far beyond what our limited minds can imagine. What is important is that we don’t fall into the trap of identifying God as a male or female, but as possessing attributes of both. Ultimately, the concept of the Trinity remains a mystery for our limited human brains. How is God the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit? How is God the creator, the redeemer, and the sanctifier? Where does Lady Wisdom enter all of this? Scripture writers, like us, falter at trying to describe the indescribable, which is why we have so many different and sometimes conflicting images and metaphors for God. Questions of the week • If you think of God as the Trinity, which “person” do you most identify with and why: Father/ Creator, Son, or Holy Spirit? • Does imagining God with a feminine aspect change how you think of God? Why or why not?

“Every year, the Church in England, Wales, Scotland, and Ireland, jointly mark the ‘Day for Life,’ as a reminder of the constant need to respect and protect the inherent value and dignity of each and every human life. This year, it will be celebrated next Sunday (Trinity Sunday), the 15th of June . All Catholics are invited to join in prayer and promotion of the Day. Useful resources, including a message from the bishops, and prayers, can be found on the Catholic Bishops’ Conference of England and Wales’ website ( CBCEW.org.uk ). There will also be a Retiring Collection for the Day for Life Fund. Every year, the fund allocates over £200,000 in grants, to organisations which promote the Christian respect for life from conception to natural death, in various ways. This has made a significant impact in local communities within England and Wales, by for example, providing mothers and children with necessary means. This would not be possible if it was not for your generous support to the fund, we therefore invite you to give as much as you can and encourage others to do so.”

Each year ALL Catholic Parish communities are expected to have a period of extended Eucharistic worship. Many parishes throughout the world take the Opportunity of the Solemnity of Corpus Christi to do this, and for the past few years our Parish has held a period of Extended Exposition of the Blessed Sacrament. Accordingly we will be doing this from after the 11.00 Mass and ending with Evening Prayer and Benediction at 15.30 on Sunday 22 nd June. As always we will need to make sure that there are parishioners present in the church during this time and to this end there is a ’sign-up’ sheet at the rear of the church for parishioners to choose a twenty minute slot where they commit to being present. Please make a point of making sure that we are covered for the entire period on the day.