A Parish of the Diocese of Arundel and Brighton
SACRED HEART CATHOLIC CHURCH
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Weekdays Tuesday - Friday 09.30
Saturday Vigil Mass 18.00, Sunday 09.00 & 11.00
Reconciliation available Saturday 17.00-17.30
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The musings of one of God’s smallest creatures on events in and around the Parish over the past seven days . . . . Once more a busy time at The Presbytery over the past week . . . . . Our Confirmation candidates for 2026 were all present at our Saturday evening Mass as they celebrated the ‘Rite of Enrolment’ for this year’s programme. The celebration of Confirmation this year (barring no changes due to not having a bishop) will take place on Saturday 9th May at St Joseph’s, Epsom. At all of our weekend Masses we were informed by Sr Patricia about the upcoming ‘Film Matinee’ that ODN’s are having on 21 st February (next Saturday). The showing of ‘The Mission’ will take place at the Montaigne Theatre, Notre Dame School, with interval, refreshment and raffle. All proceeds going to the various mission projects that ODN’s support. On Monday evening Fr D came back early from his day off to attend a meeting of the ‘shadow’ Epsom Parish Leadership Team (clergy and laity). Most of the meeting was spent looking at the raw data from the postcards that had come from every parish in the deanery in Advent. The vast majority of comments were very positive and up-beat in nature and will feed into shaping the new larger parish (should a new bishop wish to continue with the process) in the future. There was no Morning Prayer, Mass, or Exposition on Tuesday morning as Fr D had to be in the diocesan offices early, playing host to a joint training day for the Southwark and Arundel & Brighton Tribunals. In the evening Fr D was picked up by the Esher Catenians for their Clergy and Ladies evening. When he arrived home Fr D almost forgot that he had a male guest for three nights - an education specialist from the Company of our Lady, who the sisters ask Fr D to find a bed for. On Wednesday after Morning Prayer and Mass, Fr D was putting the finishing touches to the questions at next week’s Pancake Quiz Night. This year all the questions are ‘general knowledge’ with no specialist ‘Catholic’ questions; there are, however, several questions where having a younger parishioner on the team might well be advisable! At lunchtime Fr D went to meet Fr Ruslan (Walton-on-Thames) for their monthly lunch. Following Morning Prayer and Mass, Fr D went off down to the diocesan offices once more to continue with his marriage cases. In the evening when he returned he had a final session with the young family who will be celebrating the baptism of their child after our 11.00 Mass this Sunday . . . .

The musings of one of God’s smallest creatures on events in and around the Parish over the past seven days . . . . The Presbytery is now back to a steady rhythm or normal timetable as we enter the fifth week of the first section of Ordinary Time this year. However, Lent is fast creeping up on us (Fr D has noticed that Easter Eggs are ‘front and centre’ in the shops - ready for the shop keepers to make their money! At our 11.00 Mass last Sunday we again welcomed our First Eucharist candidates and learnt that they had been looking at that section of the Mass that we call the ‘Liturgy of the Word.’ To make this, during the Mass they were presented with their own copy of the Gospel that we are reading at Sunday Masses this year, the Gospel of Matthew. When they had met with Fr D on the Saturday morning they had been talking about how important it was to listen in life and at Mass; Fr D told them that it was no mistake on God’s part that we had two ears and only one mouth - so we should be listening twice as much as speaking! After Morning Prayer, Mass, and Exposition Fr D was not having to rush off to the diocesan offices because his secretary was off with flu (too much fraternising with her grandson a nursery student!). This worked well as Fr D had received an email in the morning from the lighting engineers who visited the church last Friday containing the write up of what they had discussed. They will now come and complete a full survey of the lighting system (wiring, Lumières, switching and the ‘brain’ under the stairs). This will take about half a day and at the end of it (when it is darker outside) they will show some possible modern led replacements for our present halogen units. In the evening Fr D met with the Parish Finance Committee to review last years figures and look at what is happening now that we are losing our bishop and what this might mean for the work of the Finance Committee. On Wednesday evening Fr D met with our Confirmation candidates in the Parish Centre for the second of their sessions (the Holy Spirit and Confirmation). They also spoke about the possibility of taking on a confirmation name when they are confirmed in May and were encouraged to look in the school libraries for a Book of Saints Names or on the internet, to learn a little about what their chosen saint did to become a saint. On Thursday afternoon Fr D was in Eastbourne for a meeting of the Bosco Catholic Education trustees, this was taking place at a school that was coming up to its first anniversary of joining the trust . . .

The musings of one of God’s smallest creatures on events in and around the Parish over the past seven days . . . . Quite a full week around The Presbytery this time as we finish the first month of the New Year (already!) . . . . Over last weekend Fr D met with someone in the process of being prepared to be received into the Church along with baptising her daughter; both have been working towards this for a few months now and we will hopefully accept them as members of our Parish community over Easter this year. Fr D also met with a young couple from the Parish who will be getting married in Sicily later in the year (fortunately both parties are Catholic so it requires the minimum of paperwork for Fr D to undertake!). At our 11.00 Mass on Sunday the Rite of Welcome was celebrated for a baby girl who will be baptised as a member of our community in a few weeks. Following Morning Prayer, Mass, and Exposition on Tuesday, Fr D went off to the diocesan offices in Crawley to continue his work at the Tribunal. In the evening he again met with the parents of this year’s First Eucharist candidates for their second session; this time they were looking at the first main section of the Mass the ‘Liturgy of the Word,’ ready to help their children on Saturday morning. On Wednesday, once he had celebrated Morning Prayer and Mass, Fr D began work on his parts of the newsletter for this week. In the afternoon he had a meeting with the other priests from the Deanery in response to a request from the Apostolic Nuncio. In the evening Fr D met with our candidates for Confirmation in the Parish Centre, looking at God’s love for us individually shown in Baptism and the other sacraments of the Church. Straight after celebrating Morning Prayer and Mass on Thursday Fr D, once more, went down to the Tribunal to continue his work on marriage cases. He, in fact, had several new applications to look at before deciding to accept them. He also had to inform someone that their annulment had failed to prove invalidity of their marriage. When he got home in the late afternoon Fr D managed to finalise and lodge his income tax (before the deadline!), as well as complete his parts for the newsletter. Having celebrated Morning Prayer and Mass on Friday, Fr D had a church lighting engineer (just completed renewal of Worth Abbey) come to meet him in the church to look at possible solutions for replacing our obsolete halogen lighting and changing to more modern and cost effective LED lighting . . . . . . .

Applications for our Diocesan Lourdes Pilgrimage are open now! Is Our Lady calling you to Lourdes this summer? Travelling to Lourdes is a wonderful experience full of fun, companionship, faith, friendship and laughter. Each person on our pilgrimage brings distinctive gifts and graces with them, benefitting those they meet during the week. What do we do during our Pilgrimage Week? We have a daily programme of events which includes a number of Masses and liturgies in different settings, with different themes. The Pilgrimage opens with a Mass of welcome for everyone and opening ceremony, where everyone is invited to have their hands blessed in recognition of the service we offer each other as we make our pilgrimage together. We also celebrate Mass at the Grotto where we remember friends and family members who have died, and a Mass of farewell shortly before we leave Lourdes. There is a Holy Hour during the week, a time for Lectio Divina, and many other opportunities for private and group prayer at the Grotto and in the Sanctuary.
Welcome to the Parish of the Sacred Heart
The Parish of the Sacred Heart is an active Roman Catholic community within the Diocese of Arundel and Brighton for those living in the environs of Cobham, Stoke D’Abernon and Oxshott. Comprised of people from all walks of life, from different age groups and diverse cultures the Parish is an active community offering spiritual and pastoral support in the Catholic tradition. If you are thinking about coming to live in the area or are already in residence you are very welcome to join our community you can be assured of a welcome, being offered a wide range of spiritual and educational support. We also run a thriving Sunday school providing Religious Education for children from four to fourteen years of age and provides preparation for the Sacraments of First Reconciliation, First Eucharist and Confirmation.
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The musings of one of God’s smallest creatures on events in and around the Parish over the past seven days . . . . Once more a busy time at The Presbytery over the past week . . . . . Our Confirmation candidates for 2026 were all present at our Saturday evening Mass as they celebrated the ‘Rite of Enrolment’ for this year’s programme. The celebration of Confirmation this year (barring no changes due to not having a bishop) will take place on Saturday 9th May at St Joseph’s, Epsom. At all of our weekend Masses we were informed by Sr Patricia about the upcoming ‘Film Matinee’ that ODN’s are having on 21 st February (next Saturday). The showing of ‘The Mission’ will take place at the Montaigne Theatre, Notre Dame School, with interval, refreshment and raffle. All proceeds going to the various mission projects that ODN’s support. On Monday evening Fr D came back early from his day off to attend a meeting of the ‘shadow’ Epsom Parish Leadership Team (clergy and laity). Most of the meeting was spent looking at the raw data from the postcards that had come from every parish in the deanery in Advent. The vast majority of comments were very positive and up-beat in nature and will feed into shaping the new larger parish (should a new bishop wish to continue with the process) in the future. There was no Morning Prayer, Mass, or Exposition on Tuesday morning as Fr D had to be in the diocesan offices early, playing host to a joint training day for the Southwark and Arundel & Brighton Tribunals. In the evening Fr D was picked up by the Esher Catenians for their Clergy and Ladies evening. When he arrived home Fr D almost forgot that he had a male guest for three nights - an education specialist from the Company of our Lady, who the sisters ask Fr D to find a bed for. On Wednesday after Morning Prayer and Mass, Fr D was putting the finishing touches to the questions at next week’s Pancake Quiz Night. This year all the questions are ‘general knowledge’ with no specialist ‘Catholic’ questions; there are, however, several questions where having a younger parishioner on the team might well be advisable! At lunchtime Fr D went to meet Fr Ruslan (Walton-on-Thames) for their monthly lunch. Following Morning Prayer and Mass, Fr D went off down to the diocesan offices once more to continue with his marriage cases. In the evening when he returned he had a final session with the young family who will be celebrating the baptism of their child after our 11.00 Mass this Sunday . . . .

The musings of one of God’s smallest creatures on events in and around the Parish over the past seven days . . . . The Presbytery is now back to a steady rhythm or normal timetable as we enter the fifth week of the first section of Ordinary Time this year. However, Lent is fast creeping up on us (Fr D has noticed that Easter Eggs are ‘front and centre’ in the shops - ready for the shop keepers to make their money! At our 11.00 Mass last Sunday we again welcomed our First Eucharist candidates and learnt that they had been looking at that section of the Mass that we call the ‘Liturgy of the Word.’ To make this, during the Mass they were presented with their own copy of the Gospel that we are reading at Sunday Masses this year, the Gospel of Matthew. When they had met with Fr D on the Saturday morning they had been talking about how important it was to listen in life and at Mass; Fr D told them that it was no mistake on God’s part that we had two ears and only one mouth - so we should be listening twice as much as speaking! After Morning Prayer, Mass, and Exposition Fr D was not having to rush off to the diocesan offices because his secretary was off with flu (too much fraternising with her grandson a nursery student!). This worked well as Fr D had received an email in the morning from the lighting engineers who visited the church last Friday containing the write up of what they had discussed. They will now come and complete a full survey of the lighting system (wiring, Lumières, switching and the ‘brain’ under the stairs). This will take about half a day and at the end of it (when it is darker outside) they will show some possible modern led replacements for our present halogen units. In the evening Fr D met with the Parish Finance Committee to review last years figures and look at what is happening now that we are losing our bishop and what this might mean for the work of the Finance Committee. On Wednesday evening Fr D met with our Confirmation candidates in the Parish Centre for the second of their sessions (the Holy Spirit and Confirmation). They also spoke about the possibility of taking on a confirmation name when they are confirmed in May and were encouraged to look in the school libraries for a Book of Saints Names or on the internet, to learn a little about what their chosen saint did to become a saint. On Thursday afternoon Fr D was in Eastbourne for a meeting of the Bosco Catholic Education trustees, this was taking place at a school that was coming up to its first anniversary of joining the trust . . .

The musings of one of God’s smallest creatures on events in and around the Parish over the past seven days . . . . Quite a full week around The Presbytery this time as we finish the first month of the New Year (already!) . . . . Over last weekend Fr D met with someone in the process of being prepared to be received into the Church along with baptising her daughter; both have been working towards this for a few months now and we will hopefully accept them as members of our Parish community over Easter this year. Fr D also met with a young couple from the Parish who will be getting married in Sicily later in the year (fortunately both parties are Catholic so it requires the minimum of paperwork for Fr D to undertake!). At our 11.00 Mass on Sunday the Rite of Welcome was celebrated for a baby girl who will be baptised as a member of our community in a few weeks. Following Morning Prayer, Mass, and Exposition on Tuesday, Fr D went off to the diocesan offices in Crawley to continue his work at the Tribunal. In the evening he again met with the parents of this year’s First Eucharist candidates for their second session; this time they were looking at the first main section of the Mass the ‘Liturgy of the Word,’ ready to help their children on Saturday morning. On Wednesday, once he had celebrated Morning Prayer and Mass, Fr D began work on his parts of the newsletter for this week. In the afternoon he had a meeting with the other priests from the Deanery in response to a request from the Apostolic Nuncio. In the evening Fr D met with our candidates for Confirmation in the Parish Centre, looking at God’s love for us individually shown in Baptism and the other sacraments of the Church. Straight after celebrating Morning Prayer and Mass on Thursday Fr D, once more, went down to the Tribunal to continue his work on marriage cases. He, in fact, had several new applications to look at before deciding to accept them. He also had to inform someone that their annulment had failed to prove invalidity of their marriage. When he got home in the late afternoon Fr D managed to finalise and lodge his income tax (before the deadline!), as well as complete his parts for the newsletter. Having celebrated Morning Prayer and Mass on Friday, Fr D had a church lighting engineer (just completed renewal of Worth Abbey) come to meet him in the church to look at possible solutions for replacing our obsolete halogen lighting and changing to more modern and cost effective LED lighting . . . . . . .

The musings of one of God’s smallest creatures on events in and around the Parish over the past seven days . . . . At our 09.00 Mass last Sunday this year’s First Eucharist families were present for the enrolment of this year’s candidates. The candidates renewed their baptismal promises (which were made for them by their parents at their baptisms), before their parents reaffirmed the promise to be ‘the first and best of teachers to their child in the ways of faith.’ The candidates were then presented with the workbook that they will be using over the next few months to prepare for First Eucharist (on 14th June). In the evening Fr D was delighted to see so many parishioners at the annual Christian Unity Week Service at the United Church in Stoke Road - Sacred Heart Parishioners outnumbered any other group! On Monday evening Fr D came home early from his day off in order to attend a meeting of the ‘Shadow Parish Finance Team.’ Although with Bishop Richard having been appointed to Westminster and, therefore, no changes being possible within the diocese, it is possible to carry on with preparatory work and sharing of good practice by this team (none of this will be wasted if the new Bishop does not wish to continue with the new arrangements for our Deanery parishes). After Morning Prayer, Mass, and Exposition on Tuesday Fr D was off down to the diocesan offices in Crawley. He completed his judgement on one of his cases and started preparing the judgement for the next case. Once he has the two ready he will call a meeting of the judges to finalise the Sentence for both cases. When he returned from Crawley in the evening Fr D was meeting for the first time with the prospective candidates and parents for this year’s Confirmation (9th May). Having celebrated Morning Prayer and Mass on Wednesday morning Fr D spent some time gathering the details that he needs to complete his tax return for last year before starting work on his parts of the newsletter. After Morning Prayer and Mass on Thursday Fr D was off down to Crawley again where he had a meeting with his opposite numbers in the Marriage Tribunal in Southwark, sharing with them how he deals with Penal Cases when they crop up. When he got back in the late afternoon Fr D was meeting with a young couple who are preparing for the baptism of their young daughter in a few weeks time . . . .
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WAY OF THE CROSS & SOUP LUNCHES, FRIDAYS DURING LENT - Beginning Friday 20th February helpers are required: (1) to lead the Stations of the Cross prayers and (2) teams of 2 to provide the soup and bread, to set up cutlery/tables in the Parish Centre. Please use the Sign-up sheet at the rear of the church.
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Applications for our Diocesan Lourdes Pilgrimage are open now! Is Our Lady calling you to Lourdes this summer? Travelling to Lourdes is a wonderful experience full of fun, companionship, faith, friendship and laughter. Each person on our pilgrimage brings distinctive gifts and graces with them, benefitting those they meet during the week. What do we do during our Pilgrimage Week? We have a daily programme of events which includes a number of Masses and liturgies in different settings, with different themes. The Pilgrimage opens with a Mass of welcome for everyone and opening ceremony, where everyone is invited to have their hands blessed in recognition of the service we offer each other as we make our pilgrimage together. We also celebrate Mass at the Grotto where we remember friends and family members who have died, and a Mass of farewell shortly before we leave Lourdes. There is a Holy Hour during the week, a time for Lectio Divina, and many other opportunities for private and group prayer at the Grotto and in the Sanctuary.
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