A Parish of the Diocese of Arundel and Brighton
SACRED HEART CATHOLIC CHURCH
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Weekdays Tuesday - Friday 09.30
Saturday Vigil Mass 18.00, Sunday 09.00 & 11.00
Reconciliation available Saturday 17.00-17.30
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The musings of one of God’s smallest creatures on events in and around the Parish over the past seven days . . . . A very quiet week around The Presbytery; Fr D took off in the car on Easter Sunday evening to stay with a friend in Reigate before being picked up at 04.30 to be taken to Heathrow ready to catch a plane to Toulouse and from there by coach to Lourdes. Fr D was back looking after special needs children once more. However, he was also meeting up with the ‘Old & Bold’ group from last year (those are more senior adults who in the past were helpers in various groups before deciding that they were now too old to be going as helpers/wranglers for the children). They were able to join in with all of the Trust liturgies during the week but otherwise have a more sedate (and calm) time without children. Fr D has been a couple of times with this older group (perhaps he’s getting ready for when he could be classed as ‘Old & Bold’!). He should be returning to the Parish on Sunday evening when he will no doubt start messing about with the big white tin boxes in the utility room! Before leaving he did leave me with a schedule of what they’ve been doing during the week: • Monday - depart Heathrow for Toulouse, coach to hotel in Lourdes, relax at a local café before evening meal with the rest of the group and night prayers. • Tuesday - Mass at Sheepfold chapel (Fr D’s favourite), walk to see Grotto before lunch, rest before a ‘tour of town (Cachot, Boly Mill, Parish Church, Maison Paternelle) café stop, then back to hotel for dinner, before joining in Torchlight Procession. • Wednesday - Stations of the Cross on the Prairie before lunch, Coach to Hosanna House, Mass in Hosanna House Chapel. Fr D to join Old & Bold for late celebration lunch in a Bartres restaurant. • Thursday - Join Trust Mass in underground Basilica, Blessed Sacrament Procession, Torchlight Procession. • Friday - Mass in the St Frai chapel and shops (Fr D intends to buy the special crosses for our First Eucharist candidates), drinks at a Café overlooking the river Garve. • Saturday - Free time in Lourdes before catching coach to Toulouse airport and flight home (- to rest!)
The musings of one of God’s smallest creatures on events in and around the Parish over the past seven days . . . . Very, very busy around The Presbytery this week as we enter into Holy Week, the commemoration of the Lord’s Passion and Resurrection which we celebrate each year . . . . At the weekend we began our Masses remembering the entry of Jesus into Jerusalem to great crowds and acclamations “Hosanna to the king of David . . .” Then the Gospel reading (this year from St Matthew’s account) told us of his arrest, trial, and execution on the Cross. In the afternoon we celebrated the last of our Lenten Evening Prayer and Benediction services. Monday morning and Fr D was up early to be ready for the lighting engineers who are undertaking the upgrade to the lighting in the church. This was the first of three stages in the process and gave the whole system a new ‘brain’ so that it could work with LED units (low energy usage) rather than the present halogen units (high energy usage). For the present the halogen units will still be used but the next development will be their replacement with LED. By 17.00 all the works had been completed and the church left tidy once more. After celebrating Morning Prayer, Mass, and Exposition on Tuesday, Fr D was down to Crawley once more to the Tribunal office. When he got home late afternoon he was just back in time to meet a parishioner who was coming to reseal the church floor ready for Easter. In the evening Fr D was working on the booklet for the Triduum services (Holy Thursday, Good Friday, and the Easter Vigil). Having celebrated Morning Prayer and Mass on Wednesday, Fr D finalised the Triduum Booklet and was completing the Easter Newsletter. On Thursday Fr D went across to St Joseph’s, Epsom to collect the Holy Oils that were blessed a the Chrism Mass in Arundel Cathedral on Wednesday evening and which will be used for the celebration of the sacraments in the Parish until next Easter. He had lunch with the sisters next door and then prepared for the first of the Triduum celebrations. On Friday morning Fr D was with several children from the Parish celebrating a special Children’s Way of the Cross in the church before preparing for the Commemoration of the Passion in the afternoon (the only day of the year on which the Church never celebrates Mass!).
Wednesday 1st April, 18.00, Arundel Cathedral, BN18 9AY. People from across our diocesan family of faith are invited to join Bishop Gerard Bradley and members of clergy at the annual Chrism Mass – one of the most beautiful Masses of the year, celebrated in Catholic cathedrals across the world in Holy Week. All are welcome
On Passion (Palm) Sunday, we hear two Gospel readings. The first tells us of Jesus’ triumphal entry into Jerusalem. The second is the full Passion account. In between are readings from Isaiah and Philippians, reminding us of Jesus’ humility and willingness to be the suffering servant of God. The combination of scriptures moves us from rejoicing and praising Jesus along with the people waving their palms on the roadside to the disturbing events that lead to his arrest, trial, and death. These scripture passages are an emotional roller coaster ride. The entire Passion story is difficult to read and hear because it is challenging to be with people who are in pain, especially when they are people we know and love. Even if we have the desire to stay present and remain loyal, Peter, James, and John remind us that sometimes the pain is just too great and we escape from it. Jesus’ three friends escaped the discomfort of being with Jesus in his agony by sleeping. Others of us avoid pain in other ways, perhaps with food, alcohol or drugs, exercise, forms of entertainment or technology use, overworking, etc. Sometimes our escape is simply by finding reasons not to spend time with the person in pain. St. Ignatius wrote a program of prayer called The Spiritual Exercises. He urges all those who are praying the Exercises to stay present to Jesus during his Passion. He suggests that we allow ourselves to feel the agony, sorrow, and distress as much as we can, to remain with Jesus, and watch with him as he asked his friends to do in the Garden of Gethsemane. We cannot be physically present to Jesus in his suffering now, but surely there are people in our lives who are suffering with whom we can remain awake. It might be a form of agony for us to watch and to share in another’s pain, but when we do it for others, we do it for Jesus. Questions of the week Think about an experience you have had of being with someone in their pain: physical or otherwise. Did you have any urge to run away or escape it? Think of someone in your life now who is suffering. How might you make yourself available so that person will know he or she is not alone?
Welcome to the Parish of the Sacred Heart
The Parish of the Sacred Heart is an active Roman Catholic community within the Diocese of Arundel and Brighton for those living in the environs of Cobham, Stoke D’Abernon and Oxshott. Comprised of people from all walks of life, from different age groups and diverse cultures the Parish is an active community offering spiritual and pastoral support in the Catholic tradition. If you are thinking about coming to live in the area or are already in residence you are very welcome to join our community you can be assured of a welcome, being offered a wide range of spiritual and educational support. We also run a thriving Sunday school providing Religious Education for children from four to fourteen years of age and provides preparation for the Sacraments of First Reconciliation, First Eucharist and Confirmation.
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The musings of one of God’s smallest creatures on events in and around the Parish over the past seven days . . . . A very quiet week around The Presbytery; Fr D took off in the car on Easter Sunday evening to stay with a friend in Reigate before being picked up at 04.30 to be taken to Heathrow ready to catch a plane to Toulouse and from there by coach to Lourdes. Fr D was back looking after special needs children once more. However, he was also meeting up with the ‘Old & Bold’ group from last year (those are more senior adults who in the past were helpers in various groups before deciding that they were now too old to be going as helpers/wranglers for the children). They were able to join in with all of the Trust liturgies during the week but otherwise have a more sedate (and calm) time without children. Fr D has been a couple of times with this older group (perhaps he’s getting ready for when he could be classed as ‘Old & Bold’!). He should be returning to the Parish on Sunday evening when he will no doubt start messing about with the big white tin boxes in the utility room! Before leaving he did leave me with a schedule of what they’ve been doing during the week: • Monday - depart Heathrow for Toulouse, coach to hotel in Lourdes, relax at a local café before evening meal with the rest of the group and night prayers. • Tuesday - Mass at Sheepfold chapel (Fr D’s favourite), walk to see Grotto before lunch, rest before a ‘tour of town (Cachot, Boly Mill, Parish Church, Maison Paternelle) café stop, then back to hotel for dinner, before joining in Torchlight Procession. • Wednesday - Stations of the Cross on the Prairie before lunch, Coach to Hosanna House, Mass in Hosanna House Chapel. Fr D to join Old & Bold for late celebration lunch in a Bartres restaurant. • Thursday - Join Trust Mass in underground Basilica, Blessed Sacrament Procession, Torchlight Procession. • Friday - Mass in the St Frai chapel and shops (Fr D intends to buy the special crosses for our First Eucharist candidates), drinks at a Café overlooking the river Garve. • Saturday - Free time in Lourdes before catching coach to Toulouse airport and flight home (- to rest!)
The musings of one of God’s smallest creatures on events in and around the Parish over the past seven days . . . . Very, very busy around The Presbytery this week as we enter into Holy Week, the commemoration of the Lord’s Passion and Resurrection which we celebrate each year . . . . At the weekend we began our Masses remembering the entry of Jesus into Jerusalem to great crowds and acclamations “Hosanna to the king of David . . .” Then the Gospel reading (this year from St Matthew’s account) told us of his arrest, trial, and execution on the Cross. In the afternoon we celebrated the last of our Lenten Evening Prayer and Benediction services. Monday morning and Fr D was up early to be ready for the lighting engineers who are undertaking the upgrade to the lighting in the church. This was the first of three stages in the process and gave the whole system a new ‘brain’ so that it could work with LED units (low energy usage) rather than the present halogen units (high energy usage). For the present the halogen units will still be used but the next development will be their replacement with LED. By 17.00 all the works had been completed and the church left tidy once more. After celebrating Morning Prayer, Mass, and Exposition on Tuesday, Fr D was down to Crawley once more to the Tribunal office. When he got home late afternoon he was just back in time to meet a parishioner who was coming to reseal the church floor ready for Easter. In the evening Fr D was working on the booklet for the Triduum services (Holy Thursday, Good Friday, and the Easter Vigil). Having celebrated Morning Prayer and Mass on Wednesday, Fr D finalised the Triduum Booklet and was completing the Easter Newsletter. On Thursday Fr D went across to St Joseph’s, Epsom to collect the Holy Oils that were blessed a the Chrism Mass in Arundel Cathedral on Wednesday evening and which will be used for the celebration of the sacraments in the Parish until next Easter. He had lunch with the sisters next door and then prepared for the first of the Triduum celebrations. On Friday morning Fr D was with several children from the Parish celebrating a special Children’s Way of the Cross in the church before preparing for the Commemoration of the Passion in the afternoon (the only day of the year on which the Church never celebrates Mass!).
The musings of one of God’s smallest creatures on events in and around the Parish over the past seven days . . . . Really very busy this week as preparations for Holy Week start running full-tilt around The Presbytery . . . . Last Saturday morning Fr D celebrated a Lenten Reconciliation Service for Primary school aged children; this was also a ‘second bite at the cherry’ for those who are preparing to receive their First Eucharist in June. After the children’s service Fr D was meeting with a young couple who will be getting married in Ireland at the end of May to complete their formal marriage preparation. All parishioners are reminded that the diocese requires a minimum notice of twelve months before the date of marriage for adequate preparation to be completed. After Morning Prayer, Mass, and Exposition on Tuesday Fr D was meeting with a parishioner who will be Received Into Full Communion with the Church alongside her daughter being baptised at our Easter Vigil next Saturday. In the afternoon he was off down to Shoreham to attend a Governors meetings for a Primary School which is part of the BOSCO Catholic Education Trust - this is a school that Fr D was a governor for until he was asked by the bishop to help form the BOSCO Trust. Following Morning Prayer and Mass on Wednesday Fr D was upstairs in the Parish Office to meet the independent auditors the diocese uses to test a sample of parishes each year. Sacred Heart has cropped up twice in the six and a half years that Fr D has been in Cobham. When all the tests are completed around the diocese there is normally a report back to the test parishes. Fr D thinks that we are travelling in the right direction on hearing from the auditor that what normally takes about five hours in other parishes was achieved in one and a half hours, that we run a ‘tight ship!’ Thursday after celebrating Morning Prayer and Mass Fr D went off down to the diocesan offices in Crawley wearing his ‘other hat’ as a canon lawyer. He now has four cases awaiting his judgement (one and a half of which are now ready to be judged, probably around mid April). Whilst in the office he dropped off the marriage papers he’d prepared for Ireland - these now go out to the diocese in Ireland and finally to the parish where the couple are getting married. After celebrating Morning Prayer and Mass on Friday Fr D passed on the work he had done on the newsletter to Sarah for her bits to be added. Later in the morning we had the last stations and soup lunch of Lent . . . .
EASTER COLLECTION FOR THE SUPPORT OF PARISH CLERGY - This provides income to the Parish for the support of clergy and may be Gift Aided. Any cheques should be made payable to the ‘Sacred Heart Parish, Cobham’ (any cheques made out personally to a member of clergy are direct gifts and cannot be received into Parish funds or Gift Aided). You will find a supply of Gift Aid Envelopes for this collection in the Church Narthex
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Our singers and musicians are busy in their rehearsals for leading our liturgies during Holy Week (Palm Sunday, Holy Thursday, & Good Friday). Any and all parishioners are more than welcome to come along and join in, no previous experience necessary. If you enjoy singing as part of a group this could be for you! Dates of the remaining rehearsals: Sat. 28 Mar. (10.30); and Wed. 1 Apr. (19.30).
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On Passion (Palm) Sunday, we hear two Gospel readings. The first tells us of Jesus’ triumphal entry into Jerusalem. The second is the full Passion account. In between are readings from Isaiah and Philippians, reminding us of Jesus’ humility and willingness to be the suffering servant of God. The combination of scriptures moves us from rejoicing and praising Jesus along with the people waving their palms on the roadside to the disturbing events that lead to his arrest, trial, and death. These scripture passages are an emotional roller coaster ride. The entire Passion story is difficult to read and hear because it is challenging to be with people who are in pain, especially when they are people we know and love. Even if we have the desire to stay present and remain loyal, Peter, James, and John remind us that sometimes the pain is just too great and we escape from it. Jesus’ three friends escaped the discomfort of being with Jesus in his agony by sleeping. Others of us avoid pain in other ways, perhaps with food, alcohol or drugs, exercise, forms of entertainment or technology use, overworking, etc. Sometimes our escape is simply by finding reasons not to spend time with the person in pain. St. Ignatius wrote a program of prayer called The Spiritual Exercises. He urges all those who are praying the Exercises to stay present to Jesus during his Passion. He suggests that we allow ourselves to feel the agony, sorrow, and distress as much as we can, to remain with Jesus, and watch with him as he asked his friends to do in the Garden of Gethsemane. We cannot be physically present to Jesus in his suffering now, but surely there are people in our lives who are suffering with whom we can remain awake. It might be a form of agony for us to watch and to share in another’s pain, but when we do it for others, we do it for Jesus. Questions of the week Think about an experience you have had of being with someone in their pain: physical or otherwise. Did you have any urge to run away or escape it? Think of someone in your life now who is suffering. How might you make yourself available so that person will know he or she is not alone?
The first reading from Ezekiel is perfectly paired with the Gospel reading of the raising of Lazarus. Ezekiel hears God say very clearly that God will raise his people from the dead, animating them with the spirit that will bring them back to life. The second reading from St. Paul also addresses the Jewish and Christian theological question, “Is death the end of every thing?” Paul is as emphatic as Ezekiel. No. “The One who raised Christ from the dead will give life to your mortal bodies also.” Of course, it might seem easy to believe in life after death until we have had a loved one die. Martha and Mary might have believed in an afterlife because, as Jews, they would have been familiar with the promise from Ezekiel. Yet when their brother died and the reality of him being gone for four days sank in, they doubted too. Not only did they doubt, but they grieved deeply, and even got angry at Jesus. Martha told Jesus she believes Lazarus “will rise, in the resurrection on the last day,” but believing that didn’t lessen her other perfectly normal human emotions. Even after Jesus raised Lazarus from the dead, mysteries remain. Why didn’t Jesus go to Lazarus immediately when the sisters summoned him? Why did he let them experience heart-breaking sadness for four days? Why did Jesus cry if he knew he would raise Lazarus from the dead? Why did Jesus raise Lazarus but not others who died during his lifetime? Why do some people today get to experience healing miracles, but others don’t? Why do we have to wait for the resurrection of the dead to see our loved ones again? These readings today don’t solve any mysteries of our faith. They don’t give us answers about God, but they point to the complete conviction of three different biblical writers who do not doubt that Jesus is “the resurrection and the life.” Questions of the week What most stands out to you when you hear the Gospel reading today? Why? If you have lost a loved one(s), did that affect on what you believe about the afterlife? How so?
The latest Deanery Newsletter is now available in the narthex and on our Parish Website. Wondering what happened to all those postcards from last Advent? The results are in! If you'd like some food for thought on Mission - this is it! What's going on around the Deanery during Holy Week and Easter? Find out in the Deanery Newsletter, come along, and you’ll be made very welcome.
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Wednesday 1st April, 18.00, Arundel Cathedral, BN18 9AY. People from across our diocesan family of faith are invited to join Bishop Gerard Bradley and members of clergy at the annual Chrism Mass – one of the most beautiful Masses of the year, celebrated in Catholic cathedrals across the world in Holy Week. All are welcome
DO NOT FORGET ! Our annual ‘Lenten Reconciliation Service for Adults’ takes place THIS FRIDAY 27th March at 19.30 in the church of Our Lady of Sorrows, Effingham, KT24 5JP. We join with the Parish of Effingham & Fetcham in celebrating the Lord’s forgiveness ready for the great festival of Easter. We will be joined by four priests to aid us in this celebration. This is the major opportunity this Lent to ask for God’s forgiveness.
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