Church Mouse - Weekly Update

Webmaster • September 19, 2020
The musings of one of God’s smallest creatures on events in and around the
Parish over the past seven days . . . .
After the excitement last weekend of Confirmation and First Eucharist
celebrations life started out at the beginning of the week a little slow . . . .
On Monday Fr D was playing host to his Ministry to Priest’s Support Group. Four extra priests
joined Fr D in the Church at midday to spend an hour before the Blessed Sacrament before
retiring to the Presbytery for a simple ‘ploughman-type’ lunch together. They then spent the
afternoon talking together about their lives and ministry over the ‘lock-down’ period. As you can
imagine there was a lot to be discussed and some were glad of the opportunity to be able to talk
about how it had been for them over this difficult time. The diocese encourages all it’s priests
to be part of a Priest’s Support Group and helps to facilitate them gathering together to be
able to ‘un-pack’ what is going on in their lives with other priests who understand the pressures
involved in the priestly life. Fr D certainly appreciates these monthly meetings (much more than
the monthly Deanery Meetings which usually follow the day after the Support Group meetings).
After celebrating Mass on Tuesday morning Fr D was meeting up with another parishioner and a
specialist heating engineer to look at what possibilities there might be for ‘future-proofing’ the
heating systems in the Parish Centre, the Church and the Presbytery. The government have
made clear that they want everyone to switch off from gas due to it’s carbon footprint by 2050
and this was a very tentative ‘first-step’ in looking at how we might deal with such a situation.
The engineer will now go away to ‘do his sums’ regarding air source heat pump viability.
The Tribunal Office in Hove was quite quiet on Wednesday when Fr D went down after
celebrating Mass in the morning. Having dealt with a few items in his ‘in-tray’ he was able to
write up the judgement he participated in last Friday into a full blown sentence to be sent to
the parties concerned; both then have fifteen days to make any objections (other than they
don’t like the decision) before the decision made becomes concrete.
During the week Fr D also received a final quotation concerning the CCTV security system that
protects the church and car park. He’d asked the company that fitted the LiveStream set-up to
quote as well as the previous supplier. He was quite impressed with the quote and is now thinking
about asking them to do the works for the Parish. The present system is now very old and
several of the cameras no longer produce the good picture quality that
would be required should the film be required by the police post-incident.
By Webmaster March 27, 2026
The musings of one of God’s smallest creatures on events in and around the Parish over the past seven days . . . . Really very busy this week as preparations for Holy Week start running full-tilt around The Presbytery . . . . Last Saturday morning Fr D celebrated a Lenten Reconciliation Service for Primary school aged children; this was also a ‘second bite at the cherry’ for those who are preparing to receive their First Eucharist in June. After the children’s service Fr D was meeting with a young couple who will be getting married in Ireland at the end of May to complete their formal marriage preparation. All parishioners are reminded that the diocese requires a minimum notice of twelve months before the date of marriage for adequate preparation to be completed. After Morning Prayer, Mass, and Exposition on Tuesday Fr D was meeting with a parishioner who will be Received Into Full Communion with the Church alongside her daughter being baptised at our Easter Vigil next Saturday. In the afternoon he was off down to Shoreham to attend a Governors meetings for a Primary School which is part of the BOSCO Catholic Education Trust - this is a school that Fr D was a governor for until he was asked by the bishop to help form the BOSCO Trust. Following Morning Prayer and Mass on Wednesday Fr D was upstairs in the Parish Office to meet the independent auditors the diocese uses to test a sample of parishes each year. Sacred Heart has cropped up twice in the six and a half years that Fr D has been in Cobham. When all the tests are completed around the diocese there is normally a report back to the test parishes. Fr D thinks that we are travelling in the right direction on hearing from the auditor that what normally takes about five hours in other parishes was achieved in one and a half hours, that we run a ‘tight ship!’ Thursday after celebrating Morning Prayer and Mass Fr D went off down to the diocesan offices in Crawley wearing his ‘other hat’ as a canon lawyer. He now has four cases awaiting his judgement (one and a half of which are now ready to be judged, probably around mid April). Whilst in the office he dropped off the marriage papers he’d prepared for Ireland - these now go out to the diocese in Ireland and finally to the parish where the couple are getting married.  After celebrating Morning Prayer and Mass on Friday Fr D passed on the work he had done on the newsletter to Sarah for her bits to be added. Later in the morning we had the last stations and soup lunch of Lent . . . .
By Webmaster March 23, 2026
DO NOT FORGET ! Our annual ‘Lenten Reconciliation Service for Adults’ takes place THIS FRIDAY 27th March at 19.30 in the church of Our Lady of Sorrows, Effingham, KT24 5JP. We join with the Parish of Effingham & Fetcham in celebrating the Lord’s forgiveness ready for the great festival of Easter. We will be joined by four priests to aid us in this celebration. This is the major opportunity this Lent to ask for God’s forgiveness.
By Webmaster March 23, 2026
The first reading from Ezekiel is perfectly paired with the Gospel reading of the raising of Lazarus. Ezekiel hears God say very clearly that God will raise his people from the dead, animating them with the spirit that will bring them back to life. The second reading from St. Paul also addresses the Jewish and Christian theological question, “Is death the end of every thing?” Paul is as emphatic as Ezekiel. No. “The One who raised Christ from the dead will give life to your mortal bodies also.” Of course, it might seem easy to believe in life after death until we have had a loved one die. Martha and Mary might have believed in an afterlife because, as Jews, they would have been familiar with the promise from Ezekiel. Yet when their brother died and the reality of him being gone for four days sank in, they doubted too. Not only did they doubt, but they grieved deeply, and even got angry at Jesus. Martha told Jesus she believes Lazarus “will rise, in the resurrection on the last day,” but believing that didn’t lessen her other perfectly normal human emotions. Even after Jesus raised Lazarus from the dead, mysteries remain. Why didn’t Jesus go to Lazarus immediately when the sisters summoned him? Why did he let them experience heart-breaking sadness for four days? Why did Jesus cry if he knew he would raise Lazarus from the dead? Why did Jesus raise Lazarus but not others who died during his lifetime? Why do some people today get to experience healing miracles, but others don’t? Why do we have to wait for the resurrection of the dead to see our loved ones again?  These readings today don’t solve any mysteries of our faith. They don’t give us answers about God, but they point to the complete conviction of three different biblical writers who do not doubt that Jesus is “the resurrection and the life.” Questions of the week  What most stands out to you when you hear the Gospel reading today? Why?  If you have lost a loved one(s), did that affect on what you believe about the afterlife? How so?
By Webmaster March 22, 2026
The solemnity of the Annunciation of the Lord was first celebrated in the fourth or fifth century. Its central focus is the Incarnation: God has become one of us. From all eternity God had decided that the Second Person of the Blessed Trinity should become human. Now, as Luke 1:26-38 tells us, the decision is being realised. The God-Man embraces all of humanity, indeed all creation, to bring it to God in one great act of love. Because human beings have rejected God, Jesus will accept a life of suffering and a terrible death: “No one has greater love than this, to lay down one’s life for one’s friends” (John 15:13). Since Mary is the instrument of Incarnation, she has a role to play with Jesus in creation and redemption. It is a Godgiven role. It is God’s grace from beginning to end. Mary becomes the eminent figure she is only by God’s grace. She is the empty space where God could act. Everything she is she owes to the Trinity. Mary is the virgin-mother who fulfils Isaiah 7:14 in a way that Isaiah could not have imagined.  Together with Jesus, the privileged and graced Mary is the link between heaven and earth. She is the human being who best, after Jesus, exemplifies the possibilities of human existence. She received into her lowliness the infinite love of God. She shows how an ordinary human being can reflect God in the ordinary circumstances of life.
By Webmaster March 22, 2026
Wednesday 1st April, 18.00, Arundel Cathedral, BN18 9AY. People from across our diocesan family of faith are invited to join Bishop Gerard Bradley and members of clergy at the annual Chrism Mass – one of the most beautiful Masses of the year, celebrated in Catholic cathedrals across the world in Holy Week. All are welcome.
By Webmaster March 22, 2026
EASTER COLLECTION FOR THE SUPPORT OF PARISH CLERGY - This provides income to the Parish for the support of clergy and may be Gift Aided. Any cheques should be made payable to the ‘Sacred Heart Parish, Cobham’ (any cheques made out personally to a member of clergy are direct gifts and cannot be received into Parish funds or Gift Aided). You will find a supply of Gift Aid Envelopes for this collection in the Church Narthex
By Webmaster March 22, 2026
Our singers and musicians are busy in their rehearsals for leading our liturgies during Holy Week (Palm Sunday, Holy Thursday, & Good Friday). Any and all parishioners are more than welcome to come along and join in, no previous experience necessary. If you enjoy singing as part of a group this could be for you! Dates of the remaining rehearsals:  Sat. 28 Mar. (10.30); and Wed. 1 Apr. (19.30).
By Webmaster March 22, 2026
The latest Deanery Newsletter is now available in the narthex and on our Parish Website. Wondering what happened to all those postcards from last Advent? The results are in! If you'd like some food for thought on Mission - this is it! What's going on around the Deanery during Holy Week and Easter?  Find out in the Deanery Newsletter, come along, and you’ll be made very welcome.
By Webmaster March 22, 2026
Please note all lenten events at Sacred Heart 
By Webmaster March 22, 2026
Every household within the Parish is requested to complete a ‘Parishioner Registration/Census’ form so that our Parish records may be kept up to date. These forms can be obtained from the Parish Office and should be completed fully before being returned to the Parish Office.  Should you move address within the Parish at any time please complete a new form and write ‘AMENDMENT’ across the top of the form. Thank you.