Church Mouse Update 20th July 2025

Webmaster • July 19, 2025

The musings of one of God’s smallest creatures on events in and around the Parish over the past seven days . . . .


Another week around The Presbytery when having thought that things might start slowing down a bit for the summer events proved Fr D wrong . . . . .


After Morning Prayer, Mass, and Exposition on Tuesday Fr D was busy making phone calls and writing emails to further the repairs to the car park wall (after a member of the public went and knocked down the right hand pillar and part of the low wall surround) and also to ask a few more questions and commission the removal of the leylandii around the car park ready for the installation of the new fencing. He also needed to prepare the template for two double issues of the newsletter in August whilst Sarah has a well deserved holiday break (he didn’t realise how accustomed he had become to the weekly template that he first designed when he originally came to the Parish in 2019 - adjusting things took quite some work). In the evening Fr D set about some reading for a meeting about the Pastoral Plan for this area that was to take place on Wednesday evening in Banstead.


Following Morning Prayer and Mass on Wednesday, Fr D began work on his parts of this week’s newsletter (knowing that he had to be in Crawley on Friday for a judgement session on one of his marriage cases). He was being taken out for lunch by one of the people with whom he goes on holiday each year (over thirty years now). At 18.15 he took off in the car for the meeting at Banstead which was starting at 19.00 and was meant to finish at 21.00 (in fact it went on to just after 21.30); when he arrived home all he wanted was to get to bed!


On Thursday morning Fr D almost overslept for some reason. After Morning Prayer and Mass he was off down to Crawley where he finalised his case for judgement on Friday and started a new penal case that Bishop Richard had asked him to take part in - these cases are always really difficult because of their sensitive nature; hopefully this one will be available for the Bishop when he returns from Lourdes. When he got home in the late afternoon Fr D finished getting his parts of the newsletter together ready for Sarah to complete and print/post online on Friday.


Once again, after Morning Prayer and Mass on Friday, Fr D went off down to the diocesan offices in Crawley where he was Presiding Judge in a team of three making the definitive decision about a marriage case . . . . .

By Webmaster December 5, 2025
The Word Who is Life: The Call to Mission Continuing to Develop Our Response . . . . . . Background As many of you already know, over several years, Bishop Richard has met with clergy and parishioners to reflect on the opportunities and challenges our Church is facing and how best to respond to them. He then published The Word Who Is Life — our Diocesan Pastoral Plan — which was then presented to everyone in the Diocese (there are synopsis’ still available in the church narthex). Locally, as part of this Plan, the nine parishes that today make up the present Epsom Deanery will come together to form a New Single Parish at some point in 2026. The central message of the Pastoral Plan is “ The Call to Mission ” — inviting all of us to help to shape our parishes into strong, lively, and welcoming communities. What’s happening now So what is happening now? Here in Epsom Deanery, a team formed from clergy and parishioners from EVERY parish has been discussing how we should respond to this The Call to Mission . One of the first things the team asked itself was how to get everyone involved. To that end, a meeting is planned in the New Year in each of our existing parishes to share information of what the Pastoral Plan means, how any necessary changes will be decided, and to get the participation of all communities in shaping what our response will be. For our Sacred Heart community this meeting will take place at 19.30 on Wednesday 21st January - Please put the date in your diary today! What we are now asking of you The Pastoral Plan is a call to all parishioners, and we know that our communities are blessed with many different gifts. That is why your participation is needed even before this meeting take place. On your way out of church today, you are asked to take a “ You’re Invited! ” POSTCARD and a FLYER which outline how we are shaping our response to this call and what we can expect to be different over the coming months and years. For example, one of the goals is a wider expansion of parishioner leadership, participation, and engagement. Another goal is for our parishes to work more closely with one another and with our schools. Both postcards and flyers include QR codes or a link to a website where you can find more information to help you make your contribution: in particular, we are asking you to get involved by helping us to identify: Opportunities, Challenges, and any Questions . There are several ways for you to share your thoughts:  You can fill in one of the “You’re invited!” postcards and return it before Sunday 14th December  You can use the online form whose address you will find on the flyer  Or, if you prefer, you can email directly to epsomdeanerynewsletter@gmail.com
By Webmaster December 5, 2025
Please be sure to put these dates into your diary now!
By Webmaster December 5, 2025
CAFOD is once again encouraging people to “swap the socks for something special this Christmas,” giving a World Gift that will delight loved ones and help families and communities around the world to thrive. CAFOD’s World Gifts are ethical presents that make a real difference - from their Winter Warmth gift helping families stay safe through cold weather, to their Super Soup Kitchens supporting local partners providing meals for those in need, every gift brings hope where it’s needed most. Each World Gift comes with a card to give to your loved one, showing how their gift is changing lives. You can also add extra festive joy with the charity's stocking fillers, from chocolates to devotional items, and even some adorable cuddly toys! Find out more from CAFOD’s brochure available in the narthex
By Webmaster December 5, 2025
This week Pope Leo concluded his Apostolic Journey to Türkiye and Lebanon on Tuesday. Bringing the 6-day apostolic visit to a close, he said: “We hope to involve the entire Middle East in [a] spirit of fraternity and commitment to peace, including those who currently consider themselves enemies.” Reflecting on the three days he spent in Lebanon, Pope Leo referenced the country’s rich spiritual heritage and the resilience of its people, noting the deep veneration for the Blessed Virgin Mary shared by both Christians and Muslims.  Addressing the ongoing challenges facing the country, he expressed solidarity with victims of the Beirut port explosion in 2020: “I carry with me the pain" he said, “and the thirst for truth and justice, of so many families, [and] an entire country.” Calling for an end to hostilities, he added: “We must recognise that armed struggle brings no benefit. While weapons are lethal, negotiation, mediation and dialogue are constructive. Let us all choose peace as a way, not just as a goal!” The Pope invoked the words of St John Paul II: “Lebanon is more than a country; it is a message! Let us learn to work together and hope together, so that this may become a reality.”
By Webmaster December 5, 2025
All little girls named Lucy must be disappointed when they first try to find out what there is to know about their patron. Older books will have details of a small number of traditions. Newer books will have a long paragraph showing that there is little basis in history for these traditions. The single fact survives that a disappointed suitor accused Lucy of being a Christian, and she was executed in Syracuse, Sicily, in the year 304. But it is also true that her name is in the Eucharistic Prayer, places are named after her, a popular song has her name as its title, and down through the ages many thousands of little girls have been proud of their name Lucy. One can easily imagine what a young Christian woman had to contend with in pagan Sicily in the year 300. Just think about today’s pleasure-at-all-costs society and the many barriers this presents against leading a good Christian life. To be pure before marriage was an ancient Roman ideal, rarely found, but not to be condemned. To decide to exclude marriage altogether, however, was too much. She must have something sinister to hide, so the tongues wagged.  Lucy knew of the heroism of earlier virgin martyrs. She remained faithful to their example and to the example of the carpenter, whom she knew to be the Son of God. She is the patroness of eyesight.
By Webmaster December 5, 2025
These collections provide income to the Parish for the support of clergy and may be Gift Aided. Any cheques should be made payable to the ‘Sacred Heart Parish.’ Cheques made out personally to Fr Daryl are ‘direct gifts’ and cannot be received into Parish Funds or Gift Aided. You will find a supply of Gift Aid envelopes for this collection in the church narthex.
By Webmaster December 5, 2025
After hearing the beautiful images of the lion and the lamb, the cow and the bear, and the child and the snake living together in peace in the first reading today, the Gospel passage about John the Baptist may seem jarring, or even off-putting. Then again, the words and actions of John the Baptist, whenever he shows up in the Gospels, are always strong, direct, and challenging. Sometimes people don’t want to hear his directness - or his challenges. John was on fire with the urgency that we turn our lives around. He was asking folks to repent of whatever in their lives was keeping them from living in God’s way of justice and peace. He gladly baptized those who acknowledged their sins, but he had little patience for false repentance, especially coming from religious leaders like the Pharisees and Sadducees. It didn’t matter to him who someone was, what family they came from, or what their religious background was - he wanted to see the fruits of their repentance. John was a New Testament version of the Old Testament prophets: fiery, passionate characters who un settled the rich and powerful but offered hope and consolation to those willing to be honest about their shortcomings.  As we prepare ourselves for Christmas, John is a valuable guide. His urgency to evaluate how we live in this world and how we need to change is hard to ignore. We have work to do before Christmas that doesn’t involve planning the perfect party or finding the perfect gift. Our work now is to acknowledge what we need to change, ask forgiveness, and get back to doing God’s work. Questions of the week  Who in your life is on fire for justice and repentance? What can you learn from them?  What can you do this coming week to “prepare the way of the Lord”?
By Webmaster November 29, 2025
Please be sure to get this date into your diary now!
By Webmaster November 29, 2025
Placing four candles on green fronds has become a symbol of Advent in many Christian homes. The Directory on Popular Piety & the Liturgy n.98 says: “The Advent wreath, with the progressive lighting of its four candles, Sunday after Sunday, until the Solemnity of Christmas, is a recollection of the various stages of salvation history prior to Christ’s coming, and a symbol of the prophetic light gradually illuminating the long night prior to the rising of the Sun of justice (cf. Malachi 3:20; Luke 1:78).”  The wreath can be the focal point of the home during the journey of Advent, with the lighting of the candles incorporated into a family meal. This simple Advent tradition can create fond, long-lasting memories of family Christmases by reflecting together on the true meaning of the celebration.
By Webmaster November 29, 2025
Nicholas was born at Patara, a seaside town in Licia, in southern Turkey, in the third century. He came from a good family that raised him as a Christian. His life, from his earliest days, was marked by obedience. When he was orphaned at a young age, Nicholas, remembering the rich young man in the Gospel, used his inheritance to assist the needy, the sick, and the poor. He was elected Bishop of Myra, and under the emperor Diocletian was exiled and imprisoned. After being freed, he attended the Council of Nicea in 325. He died in Myra on 6 December 343.  Many stories have been handed down about Nicholas, all testifying to a life spent in service to the weak, the small, and the defenceless.