Church mouse Update 9th November 2025

Webmaster • November 7, 2025

The musings of one of God’s smallest creatures on events in and around the Parish over the past seven days . . . .


Once more a very busy week around The Presbytery as building works begin to wind down and scaffolding begins to be removed . . . . . . .


On Monday Fr D was making sure that everything was ‘in place’ for the Blessing of Graves to be celebrated this weekend (Sunday 15.30 Cobham Cemetery). Parishioners are asked to meet at the chapel end of the car park so that we can have a prompt start. There will then be a short formal service of prayer before parishioners go and stand by the graves of their relatives (acting as markers for Fr D to come to). When Fr D gets to each grave he will sprinkle it with Holy Water and say a prayer. Once all the graves have been blessed parishioners are invited to return to the Parish Centre for Tea & Scones.


After Morning Prayer, Mass, and Exposition on Tuesday morning Fr D was off to the diocesan offices at Crawley where he was interviewing a new Plaintiff who is asking for an annulment investigation. These interviews are quite involved and obviously very personal to the persons concerned and usually take between two and three hours of questioning.


In the evening Fr D began the second half of the Reconciliation Programme for this year with the parents; these sessions prepare the parents for the work that they will be undertaking with their children on the Saturday morning following (hopefully able to give answers to any questions that their children might ask). After this week there will only be two more sessions for the group before the celebration of this great sacrament of God’s love on Saturday 29th November.


Following Morning Prayer and Mass on Wednesday Fr D had someone coming to see him in one of the rooms in the Parish Centre. By the time this meeting was over several sections of the scaffolding around the Presbytery were coming down to reveal a great transformation of the main roof! The works now started to turn to the smaller sections of roof projecting from the house (front door canopy, utility room, bay windows at the rear, along with some hanging tile work).


In the evening at the Parish Finance Committee meeting work began on working out the running order for the next larger building projects that we need to face in the next couple of years - adapting the church lighting system for life without halogen bulbs, and what to do about the aging gas heating boiler for the church heating . . . . .

By Webmaster November 7, 2025
Please be sure to get this date into your diary now!
By Webmaster November 7, 2025
To ‘dedicate’ a place to God is a ritual that is found in every religion. To ‘reserve’ a place for God is an act of recognising His glory and honour. When Emperor Constantine granted full liberty to all Christians in 313 AD, they did not spare in order to construct places for the Lord - numerous are the churches constructed at that time. Constantine also constructed churches, one of which was a magnificent basilica on the Caelian Hill in Rome, over the ancient Lateran Palace, which Pope Sylvester I dedicated to Christ the Saviour (318 or 324). A chapel dedicated to St John the Baptist was built inside it which served as the baptistry. This moved Pope Sergius III to dedicate it to St John the Baptist as well. Lastly, Pope Lucius II also dedicated it to St John the Evangelist in the 12th century. Thus, the name of the Basilica is the Basilica of the Most Holy Saviour and of Sts John the Baptist and John the Evangelist in the Lateran. Christians consider this Basilica to be the mother church of all churches in the world . The church was destroyed several times in the course of history, and always rebuilt. The final reconstruction took place under Pope Benedict XIII. The church was rededicated in 1724. It was at that time that the feast celebrated today was established and extended to the universal Church.
By Webmaster November 7, 2025
Our readings today are connected by their images and references to temples: a temple Ezekiel saw in a vision which was the source of renewal and healing, Paul’s teaching that we are each a temple of God with the Holy Spirit residing in us, and the story of Jesus cleansing the Jerusalem temple of the merchants. Such readings were specifically chosen for today when the Church celebrates the anniversary of the dedication of the Lateran Basilica in Rome. There are four major basilicas in Rome, of which the oldest is St John Lateran. It is also the official cathedral of Rome (although the pope lives next to St Peter’s Basilica). So we might think of the Lateran Basilica as the “mother church” of the world. It was originally dedicated in 324 AD during the reign of Constantine when Christianity went from being a persecuted religion to being the official religion of the Roman Empire. Whether or not you appreciate the history, architecture, and beauty of ancient temples and churches, today’s readings offer images and metaphors to reflect upon in light of our faith. All of the scripture writers this week were aware of the corruption that can creep into religious practices and worship. They were also aware of the value and beauty in having a physical place where people can come together to pray, praise God, and be renewed in spirit.  Clearly Jesus was upset that the Temple, which was supposed to be a place of holiness, refuge, and peace, had become a profane marketplace. The requirement for Jews to offer animal sacrifices at the Temple was a financial burden for many poor people. If the Jews didn’t own such animals themselves, they had to pay a higher rate to buy them within the Temple precincts. Also, Jews had to pay a Temple tax and the tax had to be paid with coins minted in Israel rather than the more typical Roman coins. Money changers, of course, could exploit the pilgrims and worshippers by charging fees to change their coins. All this added up to exploitation of the worshippers which invoked Jesus’ anger. The Temple had been transformed from a place of prayer to an unjust marketplace. It would do us well to regularly ask ourselves if and how our modern churches might get twisted from their original purpose into places of hypocrisy or injustice sometimes too. Questions of the week  Would Jesus be angered about anything if he entered your place of worship today? Why or why not?  What is the most beautiful or most moving place where you have had the chance to pray and to worship God?
By Webmaster November 7, 2025
Traditionally the month of November is dedicated to the Holy Souls in purgatory. The Church commemorates all her faithful children who have departed this life, but have not yet attained the joys of heaven. St Paul warns us that we must not be ignorant concerning the dead, nor sorrowful, “even as others who have no hope . . . . for the Lord himself shall come down from heaven . . . . and the dead who are in Christ shall rise.” The Church has always taught us to pray for those who have gone into eternity. Even in the Old Testament prayers and alms were offered for the souls of the dead by those who thought “well and religiously concerning the resurrection.” It was believed that “they who had fallen asleep with godliness had great grace laid up for them” and that “it is therefore a holy and wholesome thought to pray for the dead, that they may be loosed from sins.” We know that a defiled soul cannot enter into heaven. As usual Parishioners who have taken the time to complete a ‘Dead List’ for any family or friends who have died since last November will now be able to ‘look up’ the names in our Parish Book of the Dead; which will be placed on the sanctuary throughout November. Each weekend during November one of our Masses will be celebrated for the Holy Souls
By Anthony Evans October 31, 2025
Traditionally in the Church the month of November is a period of time dedicated to prayer for the Holy Souls in purgatory (those not yet in the presence of God but destined to be). The Church commemorates all her faithful children who have departed this life, but have not yet attained the joys of heaven. St Paul warns us that we must not be ignorant concerning the dead, nor sorrowful, “even as others who have no hope . . . . for the Lord himself shall come down from heaven . . . . and the dead who are in Christ shall rise.” The Church has always taught us to pray for those who have gone into eternity. Even in the Old Testament prayers and alms were offered for the souls of the dead by those who thought “well and religiously concerning the resurrection.” It was believed that “they who had fallen asleep with godliness had great grace laid up for them” and that “it is therefore a holy and wholesome thought to pray for the dead, that they may be loosed from sins.” We know that a defiled soul cannot enter into heaven. NOVEMBER BOOK OF THE DEAD - As usual Parishioners who have taken the time to complete a ‘Dead List’ for any family or friends who have died since last November will now be able to ‘look up’ the names in our Parish Book of the Dead; which will be placed on the sanctuary throughout November. Each weekend during November one of our Masses will be celebrated for the Holy Souls. NOVEMBER BLESSING OF GRAVES - Our annual Blessing of Graves will take place next Sunday (9th November) at 15.30 (Cobham Cemetery, by the chapel entrance). After the short service there will be tea and scones available back at the Sacred Heart Parish Centre.
By Webmaster October 31, 2025
Missio is the Pope’s own Charity supporting new and poor parishes across the world. It is now time for the sixth monthly emptying of these boxes. Please can you bring it to your normal weekend Mass or to the Parish Office by 7 th December; making sure that your name and address are correctly completed on the underside label of the box. Thank you.  Esmée Twist - Missio Local secretary Email: esmeetwist@gmail.com
By Webmaster October 31, 2025
On Saturday (1 st Nov.) the Holy Father declared John Henry Newman to be the 38th Doctor of the Church, recognising his great holiness, learning, and wisdom. John Henry Newman was born in London on 21 st February 1801. The eldest of six children, his family were practising members of the Church of England with the young John Henry an enthusiastic reader of the Bible. Aged fifteen, he had a religious experience so strong that it would change his life forever. Writing about the experience later, he said: “A great change of thought took place in me. I fell under the influences of a definite Creed … I believed that the inward conversion of which I was conscious … would last into the next life, and that I was elected to eternal glory. … I believe that it had some influence on my opinions … in isolating me from the objects which surrounded me... and making me rest in the thought of two and two only absolute and luminously self-evident beings, myself and my creator.” He would later refer to this as his first conversion - before becoming a Catholic in 1845, and thereafter, on 30 May 1847, ordained a Catholic priest. Pope Leo XIII (1810-1903) admired John Henry Newman’s fierce religious orthodoxy and appointed him as a cardinal three decades later, in 1879. The year before he died, John Henry wrote about the journey to sainthood:  “Such are the means which God has provided for the creation of the Saint out of the sinner,” he said, “it is the very triumph of His grace, that He enters into the heart of man, and persuades it, and prevails with it, while He changes it.”
By Webmaster October 31, 2025
The name of St Charles is associated with reform. He lived during the time of the Reformation, and had a hand in the reform of the whole Church during the final years of the Council of Trent. Although he belonged to Milanese nobility and was related to the powerful Medici family, Charles desired to devote himself to the Church. In 1559, when his uncle, Cardinal de Medici was elected Pope Pius IV, he made Charles cardinal-deacon and administrator of the Archdiocese of Milan. At the time Charles was still a layman and a young student. Due to his intellectual qualities Charles was entrusted with several important offices connected with the Vatican, and later appointed secretary of state with responsibility for the papal states. The untimely death of his elder brother brought Charles to a definite decision to be ordained a priest, despite his relatives’ insistence that he marry. Soon after being ordained a priest at age 25, Charles was consecrated bishop of Milan. Working behind the scenes, Charles deserves the credit for keeping the Council of Trent in session when at several points it was on the verge of breaking up. Charles encouraged the pope to renew the Council in 1562, after it had been suspended for 10 years. He took upon himself the task of the entire correspondence during the final phase. Because of his work at the Council, Charles was unable to live in Milan until the Council concluded.  During the plague and famine of 1576, Charles tried to feed 60,000 to 70,000 people daily. Whilst the civil authorities fled at the height of the plague. Work and the heavy burdens of his office began to affect Charles’s health, leading to his death at the age of 46.
By Webmaster October 31, 2025
The musings of one of God’s smallest creatures on events in and around the Parish over the past seven days . . . . Fr D got back to The Presbytery late on Sunday afternoon, pushing that funny box on wheels that he always takes away with him. As the supermarkets were closed by this time and he had run-down the food in the fridge before he left to go on holiday, the sisters were very kind and had a dinner waiting for him. After he had finished his dinner, Fr D took the ‘box on wheels’ upstairs to his bedroom and started bringing down bags of clothes to put into the ‘white boxes’ in the utility room. By the time that he had put two bags through both boxes and a further bag into one box he was ready for bed! On Monday Fr D was able to see what progress had been made on the re-roofing of The Presbytery and was delighted! The workmen explained that the majority of the works necessary (like lots of things) was in the preparations. The roof still had the original 1932 tiles in place which were very much at the end of their life cycle. Also when the house was built there was such thing as sarking felt (which now goes underneath the tiles in modern houses), replacing the tiles has meant that a layer of insulation is now in place under the tiles and roof battens. This has proved to be very effective: Fr D went into the loft which is normally very cold to find that it was every bit as warm as the house is normally - so the insulation properties of the new layer are excellent! The workmen also explained to Fr D that the chimney (which he had asked to be taken down as part of the works) was in fact badly split facing the roof and would have required a lot of work in the very near future! The flat roof on the very top of the house has been remade in fibreglass to ensure a long lifespan. Next week the workmen will set about re-tiling the awning over the front door, the roof over the utility roof and the sections looking out over the garden.  Also on Monday the workmen erecting the new fence around the car park arrived and immediately set to work digging out the holes for the new uprights and bedding them in with concrete. As the week progressed they began to fill the sections between the posts with the panels and the security side of things is now vastly improved (it also meant that the local council’s decayed chain-link fence is no longer in view from our side!). Whereas it was sad to see the demise of the conifer boarder it was not feasible for us to continue risking fires (such as the two we have already had) with vehicles (and fuel tanks) in such close proximity.
By Webmaster October 31, 2025
The Feast of All Souls Day is celebrated every year on November 2nd, the day after we celebrate All Saints Day. Whereas All Saints Day is a day to honour particularly holy people in our faith tradition, especially those people who have been canonized saints, All Souls Day is a day to specifically remember and pray for our deceased family and friends. Combined with Halloween (“All Hallow’s Eve”) and the Mexican tradition of El Dia de los Muertos (the Day of the Dead) this time of year is rich in opportunities to remember, grieve, pray for, and celebrate those who have gone before us. Catholic Churches have the choice of many different readings to choose from for this feast day. We’ll focus today on one of the suggested readings from Luke’s Gospel. The famous story of the disciples encountering the risen Jesus - but not recognizing him - on the road to Emmaus is only found in Luke’s Gospel. It’s a reassuring story that God can and does come close to us even when we don’t recognize him. We don’t always recognize that Jesus is present with us in our grieving; listening to us, consoling us, and offering hope, but perhaps like the two disciples, we can “catch” that it was him when we reflect on it afterwards. Hopefully when this happens, we’ll do what they did - excitedly tell others how Jesus came to them.  As we think about our beloved deceased family and friends today, this story is also a wonderful reminder that God is not limited in his ability to bring life out of death even if we are limited in our ability to understand or believe it. Jesus had told his friends beforehand that he was going to rise from the dead, and still they didn’t get it after he died. He told the parents of the twelve year old girl who had died that she wasn’t dead, she was only sleeping, but they didn’t believe it. He told Martha and Mary that Lazarus would rise again, but they didn’t believe him in the moment. Thankfully, God doesn’t need our belief or our understanding about how resurrection might work in order to bring it about. May this be a consolation today as you remember your loved ones. Questions of the week • Who is especially on your heart today as we celebrate All Souls Day? How are they still present to you now? In what memories? Objects? Places? How might you honour them today? • Imagine you are one of those disciples on the road to Emmaus. What would you want to say or ask of Jesus?